Communication is hard! Software is supposed to help, but it often gets in the way.
How can we orient our software to the way people communicate to make us more effective? I find it easier to break this up into parts. It all starts with the message.
The message must be clear – or nothing else matters.
However, even a clear message can fail to transmit when it violates one of these four (often unspoken) norms of communication.
- Wrong Medium
- Wrong Audience
- Wrong Context
- Wrong Timing

Medium
Most of us know not to fire people over Slack. That would be callous because Slack is a casual medium.
On the flip side, people complain about attending "meetings that could have been an email." Meetings are a very high-fidelity channel, whereas text and chat are low-fidelity.
Audience
Has anyone been part of a reply-all disaster? My second favorite person in this scenario is the one who corrects the person who replied all (by replying all). My all-time favorite person is the one who says, "You did it, too" by replying all AGAIN. Messages fail to transmit when the wrong people are on the thread.
Context
A clear message must be accompanied by clear expectations on how the audience should respond. Should they edit this? Digest this? Approve this? What’s the call to action?
Timing
Someone asks you to review a document and says the submission deadline is noon today. The timestamp is 11:45 a.m. This message is clear, but it is much, much too late.
What am I missing?
I'm still workshopping this, and I'd love your feedback. Does this resonate with you? Have you experienced similar communication violations?
Media Richness Theory
Media Richness Theory suggests that mediums exist on a continuum of low richness to high fidelity—the more complicated the message, the richer the medium you need to transmit it successfully.

A text message is low richness, and a face-to-face meeting is high fidelity.
Does your organization have rules of thumb for when to use each medium for different types of communication, or is it a free-for-all?
(I know some of you are email deviants with overflowing inboxes. If you can’t keep up with your inbox, this blog post could help.)
Like a video chat, but on my own time
I’ve been using Loom a lot over the last few years, and it's drastically improved the way I communicate with others.
It's a short-form video tool designed for screen sharing and presentations. It’s perfect for describing concepts that are difficult to articulate in an email without the hassle of syncing with busy schedules.
I love Loom because it adds a new medium to the Media Richness Theory graph—it is richer than an email but not as rich as a Zoom call.

Here’s an example of a Loom video I created about automating CRM cleanup using AI. (My new favorite analogy is using AI as a "Roomba for your CRM.")
Consider spending 15 minutes this week trying Loom. It’s free for up to 25 videos, and if you really like it, they offer a 75% discount to nonprofits.
I’m not an affiliate or anything; I just like good software.
Until next time,
Ted